We all search for a hero in our lives. As prejudiced as man sometimes is, it is often among the highly successful (I understand that is a relative term) people, or, to be clearer, the more public persona that we hunt our hero!
Let me tell you the story of a girl I know. She was the eldest of 5 children and lived with her parents who were daily wage workers in the smallest village I have ever seen in South India.
Her father was an alchoholic and drank away all that he earned in that day. Her mother having to fend for her children alone, sent away little Naima to a rich landlord's house as a house worker. Naima was all of 8years. In that house she not only learnt her work but also the basic activities of life and her employers were kind enough to make her literate. Staying away from her mother's house, Naima learnt from childhood how to look after herself and not let emotions take over her life. During her years there, she lost her father. For any daughter that is a painful loss ,no matter how the father is.
For the next 10 years, she toiled in the feilds and worked at home, to help her mother who was now getting old. She was eventually, single handedly raising her siblings. Time came for the prince charming to come Naima's way and sweep her away to a better place. She was married to the most good looking boy she had set her eyes on and was instantly in love! Two days after marriage, work resumed. The poor never seem to have the luxury of a holiday! This time she was working in the fields with her husband.That night her husband din't return and eventually turned up at 2 am...... drunk! Naima knew instantly she had fallen into a darker pit!
Clock ticks and Naima moved on. She grew deaf to all the shouting and insensitive to all the physical assault.She had 2 children , a son and a daughter. Her world was bliss when she lay her eyes on her kids but knew that she would have to toil all over again to create bliss for her kids. So, back she was,doubling up,handling two jobs at a time and looking after the house.
Her kids grew,the daughter was a nurse and son had become an electrician.Naima was getting old but din't stop working. It was time to get her children married. She made the right matches and the children moved to a better world. With time and progress, the children went abroad for work.Naima now retired, lives in that small village with her husband, who for her was dead the first night he came drunk.
Today, Naima is exhausted with all that life has put her through. She has never taken a whole breath and felt the cool air fill fer lungs, never felt the warm sun rays caress her skin, inspite of working all her life in the fields.But everyday she wakes up, she does the Namaz five times and thanks God for all that He has blessed her with.
Ladies and gentlemen...my hero..Naima!
4 comments:
we often find in the ordinary the extraordinary elements...we often see in the mundane..snippets of excitement...we often feel in the fog...moments of clarity...and that is what life is all about.."it is the little things that make up the richest part of the tapestry of our lives"...how simple a thought, yet how true.
Well Malavika, u cld call me rima...but would prefer a short version starting with 'm':-)
i have become a big fan of yours now..
your blog is getting better & better each time you update it with a new post. evry post of yours is heartfelt, warm & over the top positive...leaves me with a smile at the end of it...
you are brilliant.
keep writing girl...
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hey madhurima
well..short with 'M' comes down to 'madhu'..everybody must be calling u that..so got to think and get back with something special..:-)meanwhile u have any suggestions..lemme know!!
i think u should start a blog..u write well too!
well favourite..
thanks to u..i started this..so owe it all to u!!
keep visiting n let me know u have!
ur favourite
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